A long time ago, in my
pre-previous life, I had a phone call from the Chairman of the
Swedish Writers' Union, who was a friend. “We have an invitation
from the Soviet Writers' Union to a conference on children's
literature”, he said. “They want an author and a scholar. We
asked the director of the Swedish Children's Books Institute first,
but she couldn't. Would you like to go?” I would, for a number of
reasons. I had not yet severed my umbilical cord with Moscow and took
every chance to go back. But it was also important for me, a traitor
as my former country viewed me, to be invited formally by a
respectable organisation, as a guest of honour. “If so”, said the
Chairman, “which author would you like to bring along?” “Gunnel
Linde”, I said without hesitation.
I had read Gunnel Linde's
books in Moscow, and when I came to Sweden I read everything by her.
She was one of those great Swedish authors of the 1960s, the pioneers
of the everyday, but imaginative, slightly mystical children's
narratives. She was never as famous as Maria Gripe, and she never
really got known internationally, even though some of her books are
translated, and if you want to read one, read The White Stone.
I had met her at the
Children's Book Institute annual parties, but I hadn't known her
well, I just knew that she would be interested to go to Russia. And
so we went. An truly unforgettable trip. Then we went again, when
Gunnel invited me as her interpreter and guide on behalf of her
organisation BRIS, “Children's Rights in Society”. She wanted to
learn something from Russia that might be valuable for her work in
Sweden. The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child had recently
been declared, and Gunnel wanted to know how it was implemented in
the country of the Communist paradise. As it turned out – and as I
could have told her, but hadn't – nobody in the Soviet Union had
seen the Convention. The people we met asked us to tell them as much
as possible about it. The people we met were of the kind I had never
met before. Directors of juvenile prisons, detention centres and
orphanages. It was a degree of misery even I could not have imagined.
Gunnel was in chock. In the evenings she and I and another person
from BRIS would sit down with a tape recorder on and talk about what
we had seen. We brought back pictures, stories and memories. That
alone would have been enough to bond us forever. (This trip resulted
in my charity work for Russian orphans and juvenile delinquents, but
this is another story).
Gunnel had a peculiar
endearment – I don't know whether she used it for other people, but
she called me “My little cucumber”. Therefore I started calling
her “My cucumber mum”. She had three daughers, so she wasn't
desperate to have another one, but it just so happened. I was
desperate to have a mum. We met often; sometimes she would come to my
place for lunch, but more commonly I went to hers, and we would have
long mother-daugher talks about everything in the world. At one point she
said: “No one single person can give you everything you need. We
choose someone who can give us most of what we need. The rest, we
have to compensate with other people”. This was liberating, because
I had always had high demands on people, with subsequent
disappointments. Gunnel made it right.
One summer I was
privileged to share her very special Ladies' Summer Club, a week at
her country house with a couple of other writers and publishers whom
I also knew. The main activity was reading aloud: your own work or
anything, for instance, your favourite poetry. Emily Dickinson was
highly ranked.
Gunnel wrote a wonderful
poem for my fiftieth birthday and read it at dinner for my sixty
guests.
When I learned about her
death this morning, I immediately felt a pang of bad conscience. Why
didn't I visit her even once during my trips to Sweden these six
years? I know that she had already drifted into lands beyond and
would probably not have recognised me. No excuse. My cucumber mum is
gone. May earth be as light as eiderdown over her.
