tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post5557846651062961975..comments2024-03-17T00:53:17.609+00:00Comments on Confessions of a displaced hedgehog: "Save the life of my child, cried the desperate mother"Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post-47059284911124034112016-05-11T14:49:15.451+01:002016-05-11T14:49:15.451+01:00It's also traumatic for the child, not to be a...It's also traumatic for the child, not to be able to be with its mother. My husband had to have an operation at the age of two or three. His mother was not allowed to stay with him and they tied his hands so that he could not touch the bandages on his face. He has never forgotten it and still hates overhead lights because they remind him of the whole experience.Jude Inggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16684219700331551309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post-49285302493871152972012-05-12T13:50:46.947+01:002012-05-12T13:50:46.947+01:00Tanya, this sounds worse even! Not being able to b...Tanya, this sounds worse even! Not being able to be by your child's side is the worstMaria Nikolajevahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14554093780864419960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post-48650613680192342692012-05-12T06:18:59.184+01:002012-05-12T06:18:59.184+01:00Oh.Masha. We had a very similar experience. I had ...Oh.Masha. We had a very similar experience. I had a week of vacation and really... "a child needs good country air". With begging we've got a week in Ruza.In two days I had to go with my three year old from Ruza on a train with complication after she licked snow from her varezhki. And luckily, I could phone her dad from Ruza's office and he met us in Moscow. We took a taxi, with little money we had,and when we came to Folatovskaya they said it's a wrong place. Sent us by their transport to Kuntzevo .They had to IV her a few times She stayed for almost a month with no visitations. I came every day after work from the back door with candies for nurses. And she learned a new word- Durak. Then I had my other girl at the age of 2 month with sepsis in the hospital on the other side of Moscow. As a nursing Mother, I could stay until midnight, then had to go home and come back in the morning. When they said she may not survive, my Stepmother found a doctor in Morozavka who took us in and I could stay with a baby. It took her two month to recover. Horror stories. But when a child is sick it is scary even here, in a good developed country. TanyaTanyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post-27672009810083604922012-05-11T20:51:20.865+01:002012-05-11T20:51:20.865+01:00Jag blev tårögd av din berättelse.
Tack gode gud...Jag blev tårögd av din berättelse. <br /><br />Tack gode gud för anknytningsforskningen. Numera hoppas jag att man tar hänsyn till den på många, många barnsjukhus.Janina Kastevikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07969049138009950753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7363070543129427663.post-1532820644848667312012-05-11T18:10:23.312+01:002012-05-11T18:10:23.312+01:00This was a very powerful post and stirred many mem...This was a very powerful post and stirred many memories for me and my children. Your first experience sounds just horrendous Maria. I don't know how you coped. Strangely enough my children are adults, but my son was ill and in hospital recently. I received a phone call at 1.30am from the hospital letting me know he was now in intensive care due to massive blood loss. If he had been 7 I could have rushed to be by his side, which would have helped me but not him, however at 23 there is an expectation that he will just get on with it and I went up as soon as I could in the morning. Thank goodness for mobile phones though as surprisingly despite being very ill he managed to send me a text at 3.30am just saying: 'don't panic, am ok x' It doesn't seem to get easier as they get older does it!Ness Harbourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07370427313780759711noreply@blogger.com